Day 9 ~ If you have other children , how has the loss affected them ?
I have children and yes it has affected them but in a good way. I know they are sad especially at different times of the year but they are closer to one another. When I lost my first child Ridge was almost six. He understood more than I thought. I was 12 wks when I miscarried but he had lots of questions and Paul & I did our best at answering them. Thaniqua was only three so I couldn't really tell her a lot. Jennifer was almost 2 and she didn't even know. The children were older when Little Muffin & Sweetpea passed on. I just know our family is a lot closer today. My children are already caring for each other but share a different kind of love. They know that there sibling are in Heaven and I have heard all of them talk to them. It's a neat kind of love and they are excited for the day we see them. I am friends with a lot of BLM's and it is neat to hear the kids comment about maybe there siblings jumping and playing with there children.
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