Monday, December 27, 2010

My Step-Children

I'm typing I need to vent ~ sorry but sometimes I get like this. So instead of yelling at a person or like this time people , my blog is going to catch it.

My Step-children , I love them and I care but I'm sad or hurt. Christmas was this past weekend of course. Didn't hear anything from the two in Ohio. Jessica is home from college on break but her Mom doesn't have a phone. Justin lives there too , not sure if he has a cell phone. Paul hasn't really heard much from him since he went back there in May. Paul thought maybe the kids would be online but sometimes they are and they never bother with him. I did mail them a Christmas card from us. Jared lives here with us so he is the only one we talk to. They never sent him a message either. It's SAD !! I guess it all comes down to what's important and I know even though I'm miles from home I still take the time once a week to call my family. Sometimes I shed a tear cause I'm lonely but I know that they know I care. I guess after losing children and my own Father I look at life a lot different. Life is fragile and so important cause none of us knows what tomorrow brings.


Trennia said...

So sorry Caroline.
We got our CHRISTmas card from you today,thank you so much it's beautiful!

Kristin said...

So sorry, Caroline. I never heard from my Dad on Christmas either. His wife sent me a text the day after saying sorry they didn't have time to call. Whatever! I just look at it like he has his new family and doesn't need us anymore. I know he loves me, and I do him, but love is an action and I just don't know that we will ever really have a relationship anymore. I guess I just wanted to say that I understand how you're feeling. Sending hugs your way!

Sarita Boyette said...

I know you love your stepchildren and are hurt if they don't keep in touch. Maybe someday they will realize that you and their Dad need their love, too. So sorry this happened.
I received the lovely card and I am going to make an ornament out of the pretty butterfly. Thank you!

Holly said...

That's awful that they didn't even call. They should've at least done that. I'm sorry!

Debby@Just Breathe said...

That is very sad. ((HUGS))

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